Only when X and Y are uncorrelated (Cov = 0) does the covariance term vanish and Var(X+Y)=Var(X)+Var(Y).
Crucial in portfolio theory (diversification reduces variance only if assets are not perfectly correlated), A/B testing (variance of the mean depends on within-subject correlation), and RL (variance-reduced estimators).
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Var(X+Y)=Var(X)+Var(Y) always
Var(X+Y)=Var(X)+Var(Y)+2·Cov(X,Y); only vanishes to sum when uncorrelated
Var(X+Y)=Var(X)·Var(Y)
Not defined
Variance of a sum: needs the covariance term unless uncorrelated.